parenting???

parenting..that was something that NEVER came across my mind..but when i constantly hear ppl my age talking about it, it makes me wonder whether the 'philosophy' my mum has been telling me all these while is true... well, the impact of the question whether i am a mother still lingers in my head... when i learnt that some of my frens already had their first babies right after form 5, i dont envy them.. but im wondering have they made the right decision.. some of them are brave enough to face the real world and bring up their child, but i guess there are many that are still carrying this burden either alone or with someone... i know the best ever gift to a mother is to see her child grow up well... but to carry this burden at a young age, i darent say anything.. i dont doubt that there are successful parents who brought up their children at very young age but i bet they suffer more from those that are more stable in their lives... mum always says, those who are having 'good lives' are those who are already a mother..but i always defer her statement by saying that those are ppl who are 'suffering' ... i dont know whether i say the right thing, maybe i am wrong all the way but that's just my opinion.. i NEVER think of this kind of life at this age.. like i said before... maybe 10 years or more from the present day... i made a promise and im gona make sure i fulfill it before i make any decision in life... its still a long way to go...